Adoption FraudAdoption fraud is something everyone considering adoption should be aware of, whether they are pursuing a domestic or international adoption. While there are many orphans who need loving homes, there are also, unfortunately, unscrupulous people who take advantage of the situation to the detriment of adoptive families, birth parents, and most importantly, the children involved.
International Adoption FraudThese days, there is dishonesty and fraud virtually everywhere we look, and an industry where millions - if not billions - of dollars are involved is no different. Children are stolen from parents who had no intention of giving their children up, adoptive parents are taken for money and wind up with an empty bank account and empty arms, and birth mothers or even women who aren't pregnant scam prospective parents out of thousands of dollars.
The fraud surrounding adoption over the past few years has been so publicized that some people argue adoption should be shut down altogether. But while they are a loud group, fortunately they are only a minority. Most people agree that the best solution for orphans is to be placed with loving parents who will take care of them.
So how can you bring true orphans into your home without being scammed through an adoption fraud? Here are some things to keep in mind:
Avoid PhotolistingsDon't even look at a photolisting until you have located a reputable agency. Helen of Troy's face launched a thousand ships, and the picture of a small child grinning hopefully into a camera has stolen the heart of many a prospective parent, launching them into an adoption with an agency that may or may not be honest. Unfortunately this is the easiest way to be taken for a ride and wind up with no money and no child.
The internet is a wonderful tool that provides you with all kinds of useful information, but it also has traps laid by unscrupulous individuals who have posted pictures of children who aren't orphans at all. It's wonderful that you want to bring an orphan into your home, but it also makes you vulnerable. So guard your heart until you find a reputable agency, and only look at their photolistings when you are sure the agency's a good one.
Avoid photolistings as it is easy to fall in love with a picture and then think with your heart rather than your head.
Research Your AgencyTalk to parents who have recently completed an international adoption and ask them their opinion about the agency they chose. Then call the agency itself. If you get only a recording and no one calls you back right away during office hours, it's a good indication they won't be communicating with you during your adoption process either. Look elsewhere.
If you do talk to someone at the agency, ask for references. Then call each of the references and ask them their opinion about the agency they chose. Yes, it will take time and a little bit of money in long-distance charges, but consider it an investment in your safety.
Go OnlineThere is a branch of the Better Business Bureau in virtually every major city in the nation, including - most likely - the town where your prospective agency is located. Contact the Bureau for that town and see what the adoption agency's rating is. To locate the BBB, use a search engine such as Google or Bing and type in "Better Business Bureau" and the town where your agency is located.
You can also do an internet search to see if anyone has made complaints about the agency you are interested in. Type in the name of your agency and add the word "scam" "complaint" and "fraud".
Yes, it does involve effort and time on your part, but you stand to lose thousands of dollars through adoption fraud if you don't do your homework. So take the time now to ensure your adoption journey goes relatively smoothly and ends up with a precious child of your own.
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